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Embracing the chaos, Celebrating the genius.

  • A Touch (Or a Truckload) of the ‘Tism

    Sep 29, 2025

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    Hap
    in Neurodiversity & the ’Tism, Parenting & Neurodiversity

    I knew at some point I’d write a mostly serious post. I just didn’t expect it to happen so soon—or for it to be about autism. But first, a word from our sponsors… Please understand: this post is about my…

  • Why I Became an SESP—and Why I Still Do It

    Mar 18, 2026

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    by

    Hap
    in Education Advocacy & IEPs, Neurodiversity & the ’Tism

    A personal look at becoming a Special Education Surrogate Parent (SESP), what the role actually involves, and why it matters for students who don’t have anyone to advocate for them. A mix of real experience, clear explanation, and hope for…

  • Brain in a Jar. On a Barnes & Noble Shelf.

    Mar 12, 2026

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    Hap
    in Curious Mind & Modern Life, Random Musings & 2 A.M. Thoughts, Sweet? Sour? Or Just Honest?

    A playful letter to my 100-year-old self imagining what life might look like in 2075—from telepathy and self-driving cars to drone doctors and brains in mason jars.

  • Honesty: Superpower or Superweakness?

    Mar 9, 2026

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    Hap
    in Curious Mind & Modern Life, Random Musings & 2 A.M. Thoughts, Sweet? Sour? Or Just Honest?

    A reflection on brutal honesty, social skills, and the delicate art of knowing when to keep your thoughts to yourself… especially when standing in line at Disneyland Paris.

  • How to Read an IEP Without Becoming Overwhelmed

    Mar 2, 2026

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    by

    Hap
    in Education Advocacy & IEPs, Neurodiversity & the ’Tism

    The IEP can feel like legal mumbo-jumbo and emotional overload all at once. Here are a few tips on how to read it slowly, thoughtfully, and without panic.

  • Ode To A Massachusetts Blizzard Ritual

    Feb 26, 2026

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    Hap
    in Curious Mind & Modern Life, Random Musings & 2 A.M. Thoughts, The Google Chronicles

    A humorous look at the unspoken rituals of a Massachusetts snowstorm—from denial and bread-and-milk panic to Blizzard of ’78 nostalgia and the sacred Dunkin’ run. A blizzard, Massachusetts style.

  • Confidently Ridiculous: This One’s a Handful

    Feb 19, 2026

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    by

    Hap
    in Adulting & Family Life, Confessions from an Adultier Adult, Sweet? Sour? Or Just Honest?

    I say ridiculous things. Not accidentally—confidently. From guard dogs on duty to dramatic birth legends and fireworks launched by strong men on the Charles, apparently, I’ve been a handful since day one.

  • Massachusetts Decoded

    Feb 16, 2026

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    Hap
    in Curious Mind & Modern Life, Random Musings & 2 A.M. Thoughts, Sweet? Sour? Or Just Honest?

    A humorous breakdown of the unofficial rules of living in Massachusetts—from Storrow Drive mishaps to 45-degree “heat waves” and why not everything is Boston.

  • I Gave Him Wings

    Feb 12, 2026

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    by

    Hap
    in Neurodiversity & the ’Tism, Parenting & Neurodiversity, Parenting Is Weird

    A reflective look at the tension between acceptance and preparation in parenting an autistic child—and what it really means to give a child wings.

  • What Happens at an IEP Meeting (And What Parents Should Expect)

    Feb 9, 2026

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    by

    Hap
    in Education Advocacy & IEPs

    An accessible explanation of the IEP process, including timelines, Team roles, evaluations, and eligibility—focused on helping parents understand what happens at the meeting.

  • Thankfully You Can’t Hear Me Judging You

    Feb 5, 2026

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    by

    Hap
    in Curious Mind & Modern Life, Random Musings & 2 A.M. Thoughts, Sweet? Sour? Or Just Honest?

    A humorous, self-aware list of harmless everyday behaviors that inspire silent judgment—from savage ketchup use to speakerphone offenses. Relatable, petty, and just honest enough.

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Hi! Thanks for visiting my blog. My name is Heather and I am married with 2 adult children. I am currently transitioning my carreer from educational advocacy to writing. Hopefully this blog will serve as a portfolio of my writing.

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