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Embracing the chaos, Celebrating the genius.

  • A Touch (Or a Truckload) of the ‘Tism

    Sep 29, 2025

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    Hap
    in Neurodiversity & the ’Tism, Parenting & Neurodiversity

    I knew at some point I’d write a mostly serious post. I just didn’t expect it to happen so soon—or for it to be about autism. But first, a word from our sponsors… Please understand: this post is about my…

  • What I Want Parents to Know About IEPs

    Dec 15, 2025

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    Hap
    in Neurodiversity & the ’Tism, Parenting & Neurodiversity, Parenting Is Weird

    IEPs aren’t just paperwork—they’re emotional, legal, and overwhelming. Here are 10 things I think every parent should know before the meeting.

  • The Santa Photo That Noped

    Dec 11, 2025

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    Hap
    in Adulting & Family Life, Parenting & Neurodiversity, Parenting Is Weird, Sweet? Sour? Or Just Honest?

    We never got the Santa photo, presents sometimes sat untouched until New Year’s, and traditions rarely went as planned — but our Christmases were full of laughter, surprises, and kid-made chaos.

  • The Toothbrush Swirly and Other Life Occurrences

    Dec 8, 2025

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    Hap
    in Adulting & Family Life, Confessions from an Adultier Adult, Sweet? Sour? Or Just Honest?

    A hilarious true story about toothbrush accidents, Target disasters, and embracing the weird chaos that always seems to follow me around.

  • Word of the Year: Things You Didn’t Know You Wanted to Know

    Dec 4, 2025

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    Hap
    in Curious Mind & Modern Life, Random Musings & 2 A.M. Thoughts, The Google Chronicles

    Ever fall down a rabbit hole you didn’t mean to? I learned that “Word of the Year” has a long (and weird) history — and some truly entertaining choices. From “bushlips” to “goblin mode,” here’s everything you didn’t know you…

  • Grandma Got Run Over by a…Christmas Tree?

    Dec 1, 2025

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    Hap
    in Adulting & Family Life, Confessions from an Adultier Adult, Random Musings & 2 A.M. Thoughts

    A look back at the wonderfully chaotic Christmas trees of my childhood—crooked trees, melted candy men, flying tinsel, and all. Perfect? Never. Memorable? Absolutely.

  • The Real Thanksgiving Tradition? “Accidental” Pie-Flipping

    Nov 26, 2025

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    Hap
    in Adulting & Family Life, Confessions from an Adultier Adult, Sweet? Sour? Or Just Honest?

    Growing up, Thanksgiving wasn’t just about turkey and parades—it was loud, chaotic, and full of quirky family traditions. The biggest one? “Accidental” pie-flipping. Some things have changed over the years, but the laughter, the storytelling, and the love around the…

  • Parenting: The Stuff They Forgot to Put in the Manual

    Nov 20, 2025

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    Hap
    in Parenting & Neurodiversity, Parenting Is Weird, Sweet? Sour? Or Just Honest?

    Parenting comes with a lot of moments no manual could ever prepare you for — sleepless nights, weird milestones, unexpected “lasts,” and the eye-opening realization that your kids aren’t kids anymore. This honest, funny look at raising humans is for…

  • What Schools Don’t See: The Emotional Side of IEPs

    Nov 17, 2025

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    Hap
    in Neurodiversity & the ’Tism, Parenting & Neurodiversity, Parenting Is Weird

    A deeply personal reflection on what really happens behind the paperwork, timelines, and meetings of special education — the fear, heartbreak, and strength parents carry while advocating for their child. This is the side of IEPs schools don’t often see,…

  • 65 Cucumbers, One Minute, and So Many Questions

    Nov 13, 2025

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    Hap
    in Curious Mind & Modern Life, Random Musings & 2 A.M. Thoughts, The Google Chronicles

    A weird news article about snapping cucumbers sent me spiraling into the world of bizarre Guinness World Records — from naked roller coaster riders to dogs balancing glasses of water. Come down the rabbit hole with me. You’re welcome in…

  • Where Silence Speaks the Loudest — Reflections from Normandy

    Nov 10, 2025

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    Hap
    in Reflections & Remembrance, Travel & Reflection

    A heartfelt Veterans Day reflection from my visit to Normandy — where silence itself speaks of sacrifice. A quiet reminder of the courage, the loss, and the shared humanity that bind us all. May we always remember them, and the…

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Hi! Thanks for visiting my blog. My name is Heather and I am married with 2 adult children. I am currently transitioning my carreer from educational advocacy to writing. Hopefully this blog will serve as a portfolio of my writing.

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